Who Do You Want to Be?

Your Tool Description

Ethics
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  • We all want to feel like we’re living in a way that matches who we are and what we believe in. But that’s not always easy. Life gets complicated. We’re influenced by others, social pressure, and the urge to fit in. It’s normal to act on impulse or to go along with the crowd sometimes, even when it doesn’t feel quite right. That’s why it’s important to take time to reflect on who we want to be, not just what we want to do. When we have a clear picture of our values, it’s easier to make choices we feel proud of.
  • This tool gives youth workers a way to help young people connect their everyday actions to the person they’re becoming. It creates space for honest reflection about identity, values, and integrity. Instead of focusing on rules or right-and-wrong scenarios, it builds an internal sense of direction rooted in self-awareness. Youth workers can use this tool to guide meaningful conversations that encourage growth, self-respect, and confidence in doing what feels right—even when it’s difficult.
  • Why It's Important: Knowing who you want to be helps guide your choices. When young people connect their actions to their identity, they build self-respect and a stronger sense of purpose. This tool invites them to live out their values and make decisions they can feel proud of, even when no one’s watching. This skill is an integral part of learning to deal with peer pressure.
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Your Skill-Building Objectives

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Ethical Practices

Understanding your purpose behind every action

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Relationship Building

Building trust through caring relationships